Efésios 4
Desert Fathers
Efésios 4:26-27
[Syncletica] said, ' "Let not the sun go down upon your wrath" (Eph. 4:26). Likewise, if you wait until the sun is going down on your life, you will not know how to say, "Sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof" (Matt. 6:34). Why do you hate the man who has harmed you? It is not he who has harmed you but the devil. You ought to hate the sickness, not the sick man.' — The Desert Fathers, Sayings of the Early Christian Monks
Efésios 4:26-27
One of the brothers asked Isidore, the priest of Scetis, 'Why are the demons so afraid of you?' He said, 'Ever since I became a monk, I have been trying not to let anger rise as far as my mouth.' He said also that though he felt impulses towards the sins of concupiscence or of anger, he had not consented to them for forty years. — The Desert Fathers, Sayings of the Early Christian Monks
Efésios 4:26-27
Macarius said also, 'If you are stirred to anger when you want to reprove someone, you are gratifying your own passions. Do not lose yourself in order to save another.' — The Desert Fathers, Sayings of the Early Christian Monks
Efésios 4:27
A hermit said to a brother, 'The devil is like a hostile neighbour and you are like a house. The enemy continually throws all the dirt that he can find into your house. It is your business to throw out whatever he throws in. If you neglect to do this, your house will be so full of mud that you will not be able to get inside. From the moment he begins to throw it in, put it out again, bit by bit: and so with Christ's help your house will remain clean.' — The Desert Fathers, Sayings of the Early Christian Monks
Efésios 4:29
A hermit said, 'A monk ought not to listen to disparagement; he ought not to be disparaging, and he ought not to be scornful.' — The Desert Fathers, Sayings of the Early Christian Monks
Efésios 4:31-32
John told this story. Anub and Poemen and some others who were born of the same mother were monks in Scetis. Some savage Mazicae came and sacked Scetis. The brothers fled and went to a place called Terenuthis; they stayed a few days there in an old temple while they discussed where to live. Anub said to Poemen, 'Of your kindness, let me live apart from you and our brothers, so that we do not see each other during this week.' Poemen said, 'Let us do as you wish,' so that is what they did. There was a stone statue in the temple. Every day at dawn Anub got up and pelted the face of the statue with stones and every day at evening he said to it, 'Forgive me.' Every day for a week he did this: and on Saturday they met again. Poemen said to Anub, 'I saw you throwing stones at the face of the statue every day this week, and later doing penance to the statue. A true Christian would not have done that.' Anub answered, 'I did it for your sake. When you saw me throwing stones at the statue's face, did it speak? Was it angry?' Poemen said, 'No.' He said, 'When I did penance before the statue, was it moved in its heart? Did it say, "I won't forgive you?" ' Poemen answered, 'No.' Anub said, 'Here we are, seven brothers. If we want to stay together, we must become like this statue, which is untroubled by the injuries done it. If you will not become like this statue, see, there are four doors to this temple, and each of us may go in the direction he chooses.' At these words they fell upon the ground before Anub, and said to him, 'Let it be as you say, abba. We will do what you tell us.' Poemen described what happened afterwards. 'We remained together all our lives, doing our work and everything else as Anub directed us. He appointed one of us as a steward, and we ate whatever he put before us; no one could have said: "Bring something else to eat," or "I will not eat that." So we passed our lives in quiet and peace.' — The Desert Fathers, Sayings of the Early Christian Monks
Efésios 4:31-32
A brother who was hurt by another brother went to the Theban Sisois and said, 'I want to get back at a brother who has hurt me.' The hermit begged him, 'Don't do that, my son, leave vengeance in the hands of God.' But he said, 'I can't rest till I get my own back.' The hermit said, 'My brother, let us pray.' He stood and said, 'O God, we have no further need of you, for we can take vengeance by ourselves.' The brother heard it and fell at the hermit's feet, saying, 'I won't quarrel with my brother any longer; I beg you to forgive me.' — The Desert Fathers, Sayings of the Early Christian Monks